If you can see your path laid out in front of you step by step, you know it’s not your path. Your own path you make with every step you take. That’s why it’s your path.-—Joseph Campbell

Posts tagged ‘children’


Checkers Game Clip Art

Eternity is a child playing, playing checkers; the kingdom belongs to a child.
Quoted by Hippolytus

Each quote a koan, whose meaning is constantly changing. What does it mean for me now?



Raise your awareness and share your uniqueness to the world.    Amit Ray

Growing Community

We must not, in trying to think about how we can make a big difference, ignore the small daily differences we can make which, over time, add up to big differences that we often cannot foresee.   Marian Wright Edelman

Day 11

Last night at the community garden volunteer training workshop we brainstormed how to get a neighborhood more involved. The Valencia Community Garden was established four years ago and the neighbors are still not working in the garden or participating in the monthly veggie of the month food demonstration or yearly taste-a-thon. I listen to ideas that sound similar to the ones we come up with every year at this training.

Early that afternoon I was the adult assigned to a table of four young adolescents in the youth summer gardening program. The tasks were to fry green tomatoes picked from the garden and to make a remoulade sauce. Two of the guys began the job of slicing tomatoes (carefully tucking fingers out of the way of the sharp knife) and then coating them with egg, flour, and a cornmeal mix. The only girl in our group took over the frying, diligently stirring and flipping the prepared slices. The youngest member of the group (whom I affectionately call Tigger) measured and whisked together the ingredients for the sauce.

There were no cuts, no burns, no big spills…and no arguments. All I really did was watch, amazed.

Hey y’all. Maybe we’re overlooking something here. For four years we’ve been grooming the next generation of neighbors. And they are very involved.


A Creative Break

Creativity involves breaking out of established patterns in order to look at things in a different way.  Edward de Bono

Day 10

I’m smuggly content at being able to spend a pleasant, somewhat productive day alone. But…

One brother is playing blues in a cozy little neighborhood bar on his 60th birthday. The other brother will be there with his new girlfriend from New York City. I don’t think I’ll go.

Why not, Laura?

The day has been so nice I could easily slip into pajamas and return to the book I’ve been reading. Anyway, I’ve seen both brothers within the last 24 hours.


About six o’clock, as Buddy would be beginning to play, I think, “Why not, Laura?”

Yeah, my thought exactly.

So I slip on a clean shirt, put on a little lipstick, pick up the car keys and head out the door.

How is it?

Wonderful. I sit with a childhood neighbor, meet Bruce’s girlfriend and note a new confidence in Buddy’s presentation. And then…


This young guy with an African djembe comes on stage. Buddy starts playing his guitar and the drummer adds rhythm. It isn’t long before the guy’s lost in the music. By the last song he has jumped off the stage and is beating the floor with drumsticks. It is incredible!

Better than pajamas and a good book?

Probably so…however, in the middle of all this energy, I wonder what this kid was like as a third grader.

Anansi the Trickster

It is by teaching that we teach ourselves, by relating that we observe, by affirming that we examine, by showing that we look, by writing that we think, by pumping that we draw water into the well.  Henri Frederic Amielanansi

Yesterday in our after school folk tales class we read another Anansi story. Anansi, the trickster in West African folklore, often takes the form of a spider. Sitting on the table was a pipe cleaner spider with wiggle eyes and a Jolly Rancher sucker abdomen. I had the children’s attention.

We read the book, discussing the difficulty a spider might have taking a large python and forty-seven stinging hornets to the Sky God. The children were impressed.

Then we made our own spiders. The younger children’s chaotic spider legs were subtly adjusted as I hot glued the eyes. Everyone left happy.

Alas, I was so completely involved in the lesson I had no time to take pictures of the children.

When I got home last night a book I had ordered was waiting in the mailbox…The Tao of Teaching.

Let it be still, and it will gradually become clear.   Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

Friends and Flowers

In reality, we are still children. We want to find a playmate for our thoughts and feelings.   Wilhelm Stekel

Yesterday I was heavy with thoughts and spent a lot of time writing. This morning I wake with all kinds of new ideas.

Is it because I moodled around with Muse, my imaginary playmate?

Is it because today my long-time best friend and I are going on the garden tour together?

Could it be a bit of both?

Sometimes (actually most of the time) I think too much. Writing helps move me through the thoughts, but I need to balance all this inner work with some out-in-the-world playtime. Cathy and Mother Nature are just what I’m wanting today.

Here are some tiny blossoms from my garden.

first squash

first squash

blue daze from last year...I thought it was an annual

blue daze from last year…I thought it was an annual

Confederate jasmine

Confederate jasmine

white oxalis...sold as shamrock

white oxalis…sold as shamrock

from Lowe's discount cart

from Lowe’s discount cart

Nobody sees a flower really; it is so small. We haven’t time, and to see takes time – like to have a friend takes time.  Georgia O’Keeffe

Today, Right Now

What we do today, right now, will have an accumulated effect on all our tomorrows. ― Alexandra Stoddard


1. I’m going back to the foot doctor this morning. Five months of pain in and out of a “boot” is getting on my nerves. Surely there’s something else that can be done.

2. In a few minutes I will plant two golden peppers and two green eggplants that were purchased on Tuesday.

3. My four groups of after school children will take a five senses walk outside.  With umbrellas, if it’s raining.

4. Tonight will be dinner and a movie and catching up with a dear friend.

Somewhere within in this “schedule” my intention is to…

5. write for an hour in the library

6. spend an hour working on final paperwork for interns.

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